Say it calmly, keep it about the kids
A heated text can start a week-long fight. The message helper turns it into a calm, child-focused message and pulls out what is actually being asked.
Start for your kidsWho it is for
- Parents about to send something they might regret
- Parents who received a message and cannot tell what is being asked
What you get
- "I want to send this" or "I received this": two modes
- A calm rewrite you can copy
- The actual request, stated plainly
- A safety note instead of a rewrite when a message suggests abuse, threats or coercive control
How it works
- 1Paste the message. Choose whether you are sending it or you received it.
- 2Read the calm version. See the rewrite and the real request side by side.
- 3You decide. Copy it and send it yourself. ChildFirst never sends anything to your co-parent.